Are asking questions important for building healthy covenant family relationship? Yes it is important to ask questions and they can't just be shallow ones that most people would be willing to hear and answer! You know the questions like "What is your name?" Or "What do you like to eat?" Or "In what city were you born?" These questions do not give enough information about character to make an WISE DECISION! What is keeping you from spending time asking the hard questions to a man/ single mother that you feel you want to get to know better and even marry? Is it that you feel you are running out of time getting older and all your friends have gotten married but you? Is making the first impression more important then making a lasting impression? Being honest in the shallow questions as well as the deep questions is all important as the relationship progresses. Here are some hard honest questions to ask:
1. What is the difference between a personal relationship with God and a church relationship with him?
2. When and how was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt?
3. What would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you do not love them back?
ASK THE QUESTIONS!!!
What is the difference between a personal relationship with God and a church relationship with God? I'll tell you!!! When your relationship with God is personal you recognize His voice and he recognizes yours! You have spent time in prayer and in His word so you can here him anywhere in life! Those who have a church relationship depends on hearing God only through the voice of a pastor or a man or woman of God who studies the word. Is your relationship personal or churchie!
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