The interview process has to be deliberate and well thought out with the understanding that there are "time limits" per applicant. The "deadline" is the do-not-cross, don't touch, fall on, pass over, or go under marked imaginary boundary line.
My wife opened up my understanding to what a single mother feels concerning time and deadlines! She told me there is an internal clock on the inside of every woman ticking telling her she is running out of time so hurry up and choose somebody. This clock tickets louder for every child she delivers and for every year she gets older. The choice goes from choosing somebody to choosing anybody! Jane Austen said, "A lady's imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to marriage, in a moment!" This internal, "hurry up and get married" clock pushes her into a desperate mindset causing her to look pass the man's obvious immaturity and addictions to being happy she has a man.
Please don't be impressed with resumes and check references! Be deliberate when interviewing and let your interview deadline be 1 to 2years. This interview process will slow the internal clock down in mothers and will over time mature men.
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