Are you keeping secrets or are you telling them? You say you are not hiding things, then are you bringing them into the open? The initial interview will take you both into deeper life shaking issues exposing both of your lives to each other. Life's earthquakes are those unexpected underground eruptions that we never come to understand. Life's shovel is the delibarate questions asked in the interview.
Anyone entering the extended, step, or covenant family should interview to expose their buried stuff regardless of the fear. Is this hard work? Yes it is! It will take planning, selflessness, many discussions, and time.
It is one thing to visually inspect the landscaping and be taken in by its beauty and strength. It is another thing to survey and dig up the ground to find out what character flaws are buried in it. It takes archaeological investigation to discover a find. The interview can lead to the discovery of spiritual and historical objects, ruins, cobwebs, and skeletons from the past! What secrets lie hidden in you and do you feel safe enough to bring them to the open?
This blog is here to encourage single men and single mothers to stop embracing long enough to push away from their fantasy and romance mindset to ask the right questions before they enter into the wrong relationship! Our goal is to help the single man know he is The ADDITION to that mother and child. Our goal for the single mother is to change her thinking from being desperate for a man to interviewing the man to determine if he is The ADDITION to her family!
Showing posts with label The Buried Stuff. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Buried Stuff. Show all posts
Saturday, March 5, 2011
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